Stop Punishing Yourself

SPY 22: How to Be Unrealistic

April 05, 2023 Ellicia Turner Episode 22
Stop Punishing Yourself
SPY 22: How to Be Unrealistic
Show Notes

How often are you told to be UNrealistic?

Not often.

Most advisors/mentors/parents will say: “Be reasonable! Be practical! Don’t ask for too much! Play it safe!”

This is what we’re taught.

This is what we’re told is “right.”

But I think it’s terribly wrong.

BECAUSE it’s always a lose-lose situation.

We think the trade off to being practical and realistic is eternal safety and comfort.

It’s time to read the fine print of this bull shit contract you didn’t even know you signed at age 11.

The fine print says: you still experience discomfort and uncertainty AND you are way more dissatisfied and unfulfilled when you choose to stay small and follow the “realistic” rules you were told to abide by.

What’s a win-win?

Learning how to be unrealistic.

Listen to today’s new podcast episode to learn what I mean.

Go to elliciaturnercoaching.com for more details.